From disconnected to deeply devoted

We guide couples to rebuild connection, reignite passion, and thrive, even after feeling stuck or distant.

Michael and Amy together

Does this feel familiar?

You love each other. It just doesn't feel like it used to.

  • You talk, but neither of you feels heard.
  • There's tension in the house, even when you're not fighting.
  • Affection feels forced, or forgotten.
  • You feel lonely sitting right next to each other.
  • Small things set off big reactions.
  • The fun and playfulness have quietly disappeared.

Here's the good news

Your relationship isn't broken. You're stuck in a cycle, and cycles can be changed.

Most couples keep having the same fight because their nervous systems are on guard, not because they've fallen out of love. When you feel safe again, connection comes back.

45 minutes with both of us. No pressure, just clarity.

Hi, we're Michael & Amy

We've lived it. Now we walk beside you.

Partners in life for 20 years and in this work for 6, we drifted into conflict and distance too. Choosing to grow together changed everything.

As a husband-and-wife team, we bring both perspectives into the room, so you each feel understood. Michael spent 13 years as a paramedic and knows what stress does to people. Amy is a former teacher who makes the hard stuff simple.

Michael and Amy sitting together in the grass

Gottman Method trained·Emotionally Focused approach·Nervous system & attachment

Why Michael & Amy are different

Two people who've done the work, guiding you through yours

  • We live what we teach.Everything we share comes from our own journey of rebuilding connection, trust and love.
  • Science meets soul.We blend nervous system wisdom, attachment theory and emotionally focused approaches for lasting change.
  • Two perspectives, one mission.As a couple coaching couples, we bridge the masculine and feminine so both partners feel seen.
  • Beyond communication.We help you feel safe, rekindle intimacy and create a love that truly lasts.

Real couples, real change

Hear it from couples who've been there

Neil & Angie

Before: Frustration, distance, misunderstanding.

After: Genuine closeness, empathy, joy, teamwork, passion.

Jason & Sammy

Before: Lacking trust, misunderstandings through communication barriers.

After: Safety, openness, vulnerability and deep trust.

Trusted by professionals

“In my private practice as an accredited mental health social worker, with 20+ years of working with people with complex needs, relationship issues are a massive factor. Amy and Michael are my go-to for referrals. Their unique model, grounded in honesty, connection and accountability, is essential for couples moving back towards intimacy, connection and love. Their results speak for themselves.”

Ian, Accredited Mental Health Social Worker

How it works

Three simple steps back to each other

1

Start free

Take the relationship quiz or join our free online workshop. You'll get clarity and a practical tool you can use straight away.

2

Talk with us

Book a free clarity call. We'll listen, help you see what's really going on, and recommend the right next step. No pressure.

3

Reconnect

Join the program that fits you, and get the tools and support to feel like a team again.

Choose your path

Support that fits where you are

Michael and Amy teaching at a whiteboard

Most popular · Best for most couples

The Reconnected Union

A 12-week live online program in a small group of couples. Weekly coaching, practical tools and a retreat day.

See how it works →
Michael and Amy holding hands

Best for private, deeper work

Couples Thriving

12 weeks of private coaching, just the two of you with both of us. Tailored to your story to heal old wounds and rebuild trust.

Learn more →
A couple embracing at a retreat

Best for a powerful reset

Couples Retreats

A full day away together to restore safety, spark passion and get clear on where you're heading.

See upcoming retreats →

More stories

Couples who found their way back

Questions

What couples ask us

We're not in crisis. Is this still for us?

Absolutely. Most couples we work with still love each other. They just want to feel close again before the distance grows.

What if my partner isn't ready?

That's really common. You can start on your own with the quiz, our free workshop or individual coaching. When one person changes how they show up, the whole relationship shifts.

Is this counselling?

No. We blend education and coaching, drawing on the Gottman Method, emotionally focused work and nervous system science. It's practical and focused on where you want to go, not only on the past. If we think you need clinical support, we'll tell you.

Is it online or in person?

Our programs run live online, so you can join from anywhere in Australia or overseas. Our retreats are held in person in Queensland.

What happens on the free clarity call?

It's a relaxed 45-minute chat with both of us. We'll listen to where you're at, help you see what's really going on, and tell you honestly which option, if any, is the right fit. There's no pressure to sign up.

How much does it cost?

It depends on the support that suits you, from group programs to private coaching. We'll walk you through the options and payment plans on your clarity call.

Is what we share kept private?

Yes. What you share with us stays with us. In group programs, sharing is always optional, and most exercises are done just between the two of you.

Do you work with same-sex couples?

Yes. We work with all couples with the same depth and care.

What are you qualified in?

We're trained in the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused approaches, and certified life coaches. Michael is NLP certified and Amy is an advanced breathwork facilitator.

Your relationship doesn't need to be broken to deserve this.

Take the free quiz and find out where your relationship is right now. It takes 3 minutes.

Or book a free clarity call. No pressure, just clarity.

Michael & Amy

© Michael & Amy 2026. Relationship coaching and education, not counselling or therapy.

From disconnected to deeply devoted

We guide couples to rebuild connection, reignite passion, and thrive, even after feeling stuck or distant.

Michael and Amy together

Does this feel familiar?

You love each other. It just doesn't feel like it used to.

  • You talk, but neither of you feels heard.
  • There's tension in the house, even when you're not fighting.
  • Affection feels forced, or forgotten.
  • You feel lonely sitting right next to each other.
  • Small things set off big reactions.
  • The fun and playfulness have quietly disappeared.

Here's the good news

Your relationship isn't broken. You're stuck in a cycle, and cycles can be changed.

Most couples keep having the same fight because their nervous systems are on guard, not because they've fallen out of love. When you feel safe again, connection comes back.

45 minutes with both of us. No pressure, just clarity.

Hi, we're Michael & Amy

We've lived it. Now we walk beside you.

Partners in life for 20 years and in this work for 6, we drifted into conflict and distance too. Choosing to grow together changed everything.

As a husband-and-wife team, we bring both perspectives into the room, so you each feel understood. Michael spent 13 years as a paramedic and knows what stress does to people. Amy is a former teacher who makes the hard stuff simple.

Michael and Amy sitting together in the grass

Gottman Method trained·Emotionally Focused approach·Nervous system & attachment

Why Michael & Amy are different

Two people who've done the work, guiding you through yours

  • We live what we teach.Everything we share comes from our own journey of rebuilding connection, trust and love.
  • Science meets soul.We blend nervous system wisdom, attachment theory and emotionally focused approaches for lasting change.
  • Two perspectives, one mission.As a couple coaching couples, we bridge the masculine and feminine so both partners feel seen.
  • Beyond communication.We help you feel safe, rekindle intimacy and create a love that truly lasts.

Real couples, real change

Hear it from couples who've been there

Neil & Angie

Before: Frustration, distance, misunderstanding.

After: Genuine closeness, empathy, joy, teamwork, passion.

Jason & Sammy

Before: Lacking trust, misunderstandings through communication barriers.

After: Safety, openness, vulnerability and deep trust.

Trusted by professionals

“In my private practice as an accredited mental health social worker, with 20+ years of working with people with complex needs, relationship issues are a massive factor. Amy and Michael are my go-to for referrals. Their unique model, grounded in honesty, connection and accountability, is essential for couples moving back towards intimacy, connection and love. Their results speak for themselves.”

Ian, Accredited Mental Health Social Worker

How it works

Three simple steps back to each other

1

Start free

Take the relationship quiz or join our free online workshop. You'll get clarity and a practical tool you can use straight away.

2

Talk with us

Book a free clarity call. We'll listen, help you see what's really going on, and recommend the right next step. No pressure.

3

Reconnect

Join the program that fits you, and get the tools and support to feel like a team again.

Choose your path

Support that fits where you are

Michael and Amy teaching at a whiteboard

Most popular · Best for most couples

The Reconnected Union

A 12-week live online program in a small group of couples. Weekly coaching, practical tools and a retreat day.

See how it works →
Michael and Amy holding hands

Best for private, deeper work

Couples Thriving

12 weeks of private coaching, just the two of you with both of us. Tailored to your story to heal old wounds and rebuild trust.

Learn more →
A couple embracing at a retreat

Best for a powerful reset

Couples Retreats

A full day away together to restore safety, spark passion and get clear on where you're heading.

See upcoming retreats →

More stories

Couples who found their way back

Questions

What couples ask us

We're not in crisis. Is this still for us?

Absolutely. Most couples we work with still love each other. They just want to feel close again before the distance grows.

What if my partner isn't ready?

That's really common. You can start on your own with the quiz, our free workshop or individual coaching. When one person changes how they show up, the whole relationship shifts.

Is this counselling?

No. We blend education and coaching, drawing on the Gottman Method, emotionally focused work and nervous system science. It's practical and focused on where you want to go, not only on the past. If we think you need clinical support, we'll tell you.

Is it online or in person?

Our programs run live online, so you can join from anywhere in Australia or overseas. Our retreats are held in person in Queensland.

What happens on the free clarity call?

It's a relaxed 45-minute chat with both of us. We'll listen to where you're at, help you see what's really going on, and tell you honestly which option, if any, is the right fit. There's no pressure to sign up.

How much does it cost?

It depends on the support that suits you, from group programs to private coaching. We'll walk you through the options and payment plans on your clarity call.

Is what we share kept private?

Yes. What you share with us stays with us. In group programs, sharing is always optional, and most exercises are done just between the two of you.

Do you work with same-sex couples?

Yes. We work with all couples with the same depth and care.

What are you qualified in?

We're trained in the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused approaches, and certified life coaches. Michael is NLP certified and Amy is an advanced breathwork facilitator.

Your relationship doesn't need to be broken to deserve this.

Take the free quiz and find out where your relationship is right now. It takes 3 minutes.

Or book a free clarity call. No pressure, just clarity.

Michael & Amy

© Michael & Amy 2026. Relationship coaching and education, not counselling or therapy.